I have never been one to have alot of rules when it comes to dating or love. It's hard out there, and if you can find someone who makes you happy then I say go for it. Unless of course, that love involves an animal or someone under the age of 18. That will get you into a little trouble, but anything else is fair game.
People try to put so many restrictions on who they date. They want the person to make a certain amount of money or to be good looking or to believe in certain things or to be living. Sure, everyone has something the look for in a companion, but if you are willing to be a little flexible you maybe able to find that Mr. or Miss Right.
For instance, Kesha recently announced the song, Supernatural, off her new cd is all about how compromising on one of her dating standards led to an amazing few days. She decided, it wasn't all that important if the guy she liked was alive or dead. As long as he had a good soul. Which if he hasn't moved on yet, might mean it isn't the best, but who am I to judge.
I know their relationship didn't last long, but Kesha has had nothing but flattering things to say about her phantom paramour. She didn't go into any details about how they met. All she would say is that 'having sexy time' was amazing and that very few living guys ever made her feel the same. And yes, 'having sexy time' means what you think it means. Although, luckily she was vague on the details of that as well.
The important thing to take away from this is that not being so picky in what you are looking for in a companion can lead to something wonderful and amazing. You could also say we learned that while you are alive you may not have a snowballs chance in hell of hooking up with Kesha, but once you are dead and a ghost, it's a whole new ball game.